Key point.
Key point.
Key point.
Key point.
Well, that is the problem, maybe?
There is a line between discipline that is productive and abuse.
Why is it that your lines seem to be so blurred?
You missed follow through.
They donāt seem blurred to me.
I am personally against hitting children, but as a child who was occasionally spanked Iām also of the opinion that if a parent chooses to spank their kid that it wonāt be detrimental in their upbringing assuming of course, what yāall have outlined above, that its not done in anger and that the child knows before they misbehave that it will be the punishment, and I would add that it be infrequent (and frankly if it is frequent, that probably means its not effective). I draw the line though at using actual tools/weapons. That I believe is wrong.
I would consider ābelt spankingā to be beating. While Iām mostly okay with other parents choosing to hit their children with their hands occasionally (even if I personally wouldnāt), I do think that using actual tools to do so is borderline child abuse.
And to be clear: I am not accusing anyone here of child abuse.
Your hand is fineā¦until about the second grade. As they grow, so does the level of punishment. Then one day, the belt is no longer needed and then itās lost privileges. Theyāve matured where that form of punishment has more impact to help change their undesired behavior.
They donāt seem blurred to me.
I am personally against hitting children, but as a child who was occasionally spanked Iām also of the opinion that if a parent chooses to spank their kid that it wonāt be detrimental in their upbringing assuming of course, what yāall have outlined above, that its not done in anger and that the child knows before they misbehave that it will be the punishment, and I would add that it be infrequent (and frankly if it is frequent, that probably means its not effective). I draw the line though at using actual tools/weapons. That I believe is wrong.
So you still donāt understand the difference between hitting and spanking?
Your hand if fineā¦until about the second grade. As they grow, so does the level of punishment. Then one day, the belt is no longer needed and then itās lost privileges. Theyāve matured where that now form of punishment has more impact to help change their undesired behavior.
OMG, Smyrna
I so agree. I never used a belt. Just a swat on the bottom.
Now, fast forward.
I did the time out thing. I wound up with army guys carved into the leg chairs having wars. Pew, pew.
I had to leave the room because I was supposed to serious about time out but as I examined the art work I couldnāt help but try to cover my laughter.
fallenturtle:They donāt seem blurred to me.
I am personally against hitting children, but as a child who was occasionally spanked Iām also of the opinion that if a parent chooses to spank their kid that it wonāt be detrimental in their upbringing assuming of course, what yāall have outlined above, that its not done in anger and that the child knows before they misbehave that it will be the punishment, and I would add that it be infrequent (and frankly if it is frequent, that probably means its not effective). I draw the line though at using actual tools/weapons. That I believe is wrong.
So you still donāt understand the difference between hitting and spanking?
Spanking is just hitting with an open palm on the bum.
fallenturtle:I would consider ābelt spankingā to be beating. While Iām mostly okay with other parents choosing to hit their children with their hands occasionally (even if I personally wouldnāt), I do think that using actual tools to do so is borderline child abuse.
And to be clear: I am not accusing anyone here of child abuse.
Your hand is fineā¦until about the second grade. As they grow, so does the level of punishment. Then one day, the belt is no longer needed and then itās lost privileges. Theyāve matured where that form of punishment has more impact to help change their undesired behavior.
You can use loss of privileges as soon as they understand the concept of privileges. No weapons needed.
You can use loss of privileges as soon as they understand the concept of privileges. No weapons needed.
ā¦and I wish you well in the raising of your children.
Whoops these were not a peaceful church group.
Antifa agitators clashed with anti-mask protesters outside Los Angeles City Hall on Saturday afternoon resulting in multiple injuries.
Cops are still hunting for the gunman.
Shocking surveillance footage from New York City caught the moment a woman attempted to fight back after a man came up behind her and groped her buttocks while she was walking down a Brooklyn street.
Garbage culture
Trash culture
You betcha. Pure garbage. Should be hung.
ā ā ā ā those people who abuse children, hand them over to the Taliban.
Trash culture
No manā¦this piece of ā ā ā ā is that absolute bottom and hopefully, those heās incarcerated with will hear what he was convicted of?
No manā¦this piece of ā ā ā ā is that absolute bottom and hopefully, those heās incarcerated with will hear what he was convicted of?
ChoMo in prison. Heās done.
I probably hate toxic femininity and feminists more than you do for that harm it has done to families and children.
That you have said it has nothing to do with ladies I appreciate.
Speaking of toxic femininity.
The teen could be heard crying in agony as his classmates punched and kicked him
Human garbage