I drink occasionally, a few times a year. I can only sip on wine, because it makes me sleepy. I don’t need any help sleeping. I like a few wines and some brandy. I’m female but I love the taste of the Craft Beer, they brew at our local Cafe Bakery.
We don’t negate any Scripture, we harmonize Scripture. We study from Genesis to the Revelation.
God knows you drink but you are scared of the Pastor finding out? Sorry. I had to tease you a little. 
From what I’ve seen, it’s easier to get into heaven than to get into some denominations.
Jesus says: Matthew 11:28 “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”
Jesus told the religious leaders of His day that had added to the Law of Moses and bound heavy burdens on the people and would not lift them that they were forgetting what was most important. Jesus said they “sat on Moses’ seat.” I guess some religious leaders think (like those leaders) that they sit on Christ’s seat and have authority from heaven to add to Scripture and bind ordinances on God’s people.
Jesus’ words still speak today to the leaders - “I require mercy, not sacrifice.” Mercy, justice and walking humbly before God. Jesus didn’t ask us to give up (sacrifice) wine, or a good steak dinner.
The road to Heaven does not go through the Pastor’s yard.
Jesus illustrated to the Jews about putting new wine in old wine-skins. The juice expands only while fermenting. This illustration did not have a bad connotation to them.
They had no means for keeping fresh grape juice except by fermenting it and keeping it as wine. No one has been able to show that grape juice can be kept in any desirable state for drinking from summer until Passover the next spring without the benefit of, cold, a vacuum sealed (modern invention) container, or fermentation.
Claiming diluted wine doesn’t help the case because it would still be alcoholic, no matter how small of a percentage of alcohol it contained. Acts 2, New wine was alcoholic.
The Corinthian disciples had a meal. Abuse of the meal resulted in the drunkenness of some. “For in eating, each one goes ahead with his own meal, and one is hungry and another drunk…” 1 Cor 11. It was fermented and even though some got drunk, Paul did not forbid that any of them drink. He said they had homes to drink in.