My grandma taught me to have a minimum savings that can cover the most expensive thing that could happen around here. Right now, that means a catastrophic failure of the well pump or the transmission in my wifeās Jeep going out. No need to charge a credit card.
The most important fiscal lesson she ever taught me:
āIf you could afford to, would you buy this $800 TV right now?ā
āYes I actually need a new one! I only have a 13ā TV at home and that one would be WAY better!"
āIf ALL you had was $800, would you spend every last cent you had on this TV?ā
āWell, noā¦ā
āThen you clearly donāt need it in the first place!ā
My father used to say that to identify a want vs a needā¦all you have to ask yourself is, āwill I die if I donāt get itā? If the answer is yes, itās a need.
There will be lots of stories like this soonāwhere people donāt recognize that their skillsets are just a quirk of advanced civilization. All she can do for money is poke at an electronic box.
Iām in no way arguing that thereās some unequivocal or universal definition of the so-called āAmerican Dream.ā Itās an ideal which has become part of our psyche:
If this from your link is it, Iād say it is definitely achievable:
The term originates from the 1931 bestseller The Epic of America by author James Truslow Adams, in which he defines the term as āa dream of a better, richer and happier life for all our citizens of every rank.ā
the American Dream means you can enjoy a decent life of at least modest prosperity and security. In practical terms, that means a comfortable house, car and growing family.
You can add that in practical terms today that includes cell phones, flat screen TV, more than one car, etc. I would also add without relying on various forms of welfare.
In states like NJ, we are talking about a salary in the range of $200,000 per year.
Itās literally called the sport of kings, or didnāt you know.
Provides many jobs.
How bad do you think thoroughbred race horses are treated?
You are talking about gambling not horse racing.
One can gamble on anything.
You would be surprised just what some thoroughbred races horses go through. The ones who flunk out have the privilege of riding on the killer truck at three four years old.
The ones who flunk out and are bought by people looking for an event horse have to go back to the beginning of training and learn how to be a horse.