No worries. Its actually really easy to remember: transgender people don’t like being misgendered, therefore a trans man is FTM because if they consider themselves a man, being called a woman would be misgendering them… and vice versa.
I understand now what you were trying to say and this has nothing to do with apron strings or black people. The transition from it being acceptable to be ■■■■■■ to a minority group to it not being ■■■■■■ is something experienced by many minority groups. Racism was just one example.
In a few decades time the discrimination that is aimed at transgender people now a days will be look upon like we look back at the discrimination of women, blacks, and other minority groups of the past.
Are you really this bitter internally? No one is slamming transgender. What I am slamming, is the unfairness that just because a healthy, stocky, very strong male, decides that they are now a female, this gives them the right to compete against biological women. Caitlyn…one of the finest athletes ever born, who has transgendered…says it’s wrong and unfair. You though, in your quest for virtue…claim otherwise and all you’re doing, is hurting all of those females, who practiced for years…and can now never win fairly. Congrats. Your virtue is at the cost of the athletic future of innocent females.
They have different weight classes in some sports, even among the distinct male/female segregation, so why not? The reason these classes exist is because they want to make sure things are fair in regards to body structure, weight, and muscle mass.
I’m not bitter at all. Internally I’m probably umami.
There are people in this thread calling transgender women “psychotic dudes putting on a costume”. If you aren’t saying ■■■■ like that, then I’m not talking about you.
You don’t “transgender”, you “transition”.
Speaking of “virtue”, look at you talking about “innocent females”.
They can still win fairly. Just match them up appropriately.
They probably wouldn’t fund it because, “this is just like 1960’s segregation! Trans women are women!”
I’ve…met a lot of trans women and enbies (non-binary- NB, sound it out) folk, and, my experiences really aren’t…that great. I can’t put my finger on it.
Every enby me (and even a close friend who used to work at Starbucks) would encounter, would be rough around the edges when dealing with other people. By this I mean they aren’t necessarily kind- they claw when they hold, if you get what I mean, if holding is interacting with other people.
But then again, all of them we have met also had an extensive history of trauma and just rough life. It’s hard to be nice when you are trying to figure out whether someone is going to betray you I guess. A lot of them say they have been molested, sexually trafficked, and other stuff. Very heartbreaking.
ETA: Well that was more than I wanted to share. Apologies if I derailed the thread.
ETA2: I’m sure there are good trans/NB people out there, but I have yet to meet one in real life. It’s probably just my anecdotal experiences so please don’t jump down my throat.