In fairness the alternative is so unimaginable that it’s our only real option.
Russia has always considered Ukraine its strategic underbelly and its bread basket.
The Russians would go nuclear over Ukraine to counter a NATO liberation effort. They would pull the patented escalate to deescalate strategy with tactical nuclear weapons.
That leaves us with only two really bad options. Withdraw, which destroys the world wide West’s numerous alliances since they would no longer have faith in the west to hold to our promises. Or two, retaliate with theater nuclear weapons which then gives the Russians justification to escalate to general nuclear war.
It’s an insane strategy dreamed up by madmen in the early 00s. But it’s brilliant because it ties the other side’s hands and forces them to make the call. No one wants a general nuclear war. We would pick option one since we are 95% of NATO’s nuclear assets.
That old question De Gaulle asked… Would the president trade New York for Paris… The Russians have found a way to force us to answer that question. Except with Kiev replacing Paris in the question.
They can feel angry and betrayed all they want at giving up their nukes under false pretense…but small powers never have a say.
And even back then when they gave up their nukes…Russia was never going to countenance a world where Ukraine had nukes AND Ukraine should have known we’d never trade New York for Kyiv.
So if they didn’t know giving up nukes was their only option AND that they would also have no guarantee of security upon doing so…then they didn’t understand the strategic framework.
My extended network is largely Ukrainian, and almost to a person, they are resigned to this. It’s not like your average Ukrainian - Cossack, German, Kievan or Pole - ever believed in a Galich or Grand Duchy reborn. It’s always been given that Moscow would take it all back.