I have mixed feelings on it. On one hand, itās a very fascinating lifestyle that seems like it would be fun.
On the other hand, Iām a pretty jealous person. And most of the girls Iāve dated are the same way. I seem to attract women who are possessive over me and will stab another woman for even giving me a compliment.
The complications of being a bright skinned mixed dude who dates white women. Literally whites girls who date black and mixed dudes are the most possessive women on the planet.
I mean there are two basic polyamorous setups, one is a couple who adds a third to the mix and the rest donāt really work except in the rarest of cases.
i know many married couples where both the husband and wife have other partners and their relationships with the other partners has lasted 10 years +. in addition to being married to each other they are handfasted to others in their polycule
Me and my wife talked about it. Neither of us would care if the other had another partner as long as nothing was hidden or done in secret. But neither one of us have ever taken that step. And weāve been together for almost 40 years
I have friends - well really, the parents of one of my friends - whoāve been together for something like 40 years in a fully open marriage - with various boyfriends and girlfriends (their terms) of the wife and husband respectively living with them for years on end.
And theyāre really gross - their house is dirtier than any dorm room Iāve ever seen. Both are horders.
Going to a tinder matchās house and finding a pig pen is probably the biggest turn off Iāve ever had.
Like her house stank. Literally stank. I hung out for a bit, told her I wasnāt in the mood, and bounced. Back in my early 20s, I wouldnāt have cared. Getting older, Iām a lot more choosy now than I used to be.
If you cannot get your head around the foundational truth of Jesusā message, how do you expect me to believe, and how can you expect, that you can understand the rest of his message correctly?