It is a completely messed up family dynamic. Quite sad really because you know when they were little and impressionable they had to see all the crap their dad did.

I know that some of my actions caused my daughters great upset and distress but the difference is that I learned from those mistakes and spent years working to fix those mistakes but I see how it still impacts them today and is a great source of guilt, shame and regret for me.

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