Couple with this the fact that the more responsible and more accomplished members of our society who do have children are doing so at much later ages, which evidence shows increases health risks.
I think it’s great that males have said “no thank you” to the never-ending propaganda that they just have to go to college to succeed in life. Let the females get the 6-figure student loan debt and stress about loan forgiveness while working for $12 an hour at Hobby Lobby with their art degrees. When it becomes a better ROI maybe more males will come back. They are better off with trades or CDLs.
A college degree in a practical field still pays for itself many times over and is still the best financial investment a parent can make.
That said. One-third of HS graduates do not attend college and one-third who do do not graduate with any degree but DO incur a pile of debt. There is no benefit to pushing a child into college unless he will graduate with a practical degree.
I don’t disagree with the substance of your post but doesn’t it often take college to figure out what practical college degree the child can graduate with. Some obviously know going in, others figure it out in college.
The crazy thing is that in states like NJ, to live a comfortable middleclass family life (without government assistance) one’s income really needs to be in the around these levels!
The other crazy thing is that SOME urban areas are so expensive, teachers and cops make are in top 25% households (especially if married to an income earner.)
Of course so how can we not encourage them without knowing whether they will make the right decision? My point is it’s upto the parents to prepare them for either going to college or not.
Of course so how can we not encourage them without knowing whether they will make the right decision? My point is it’s upto the parents to prepare them for either going to college or not.
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Yes, but part of the problem there is that 40% of American children (as has been noted in this thread) are born to single moms, most of whom do a lousy job raising children. So there’s plenty of children in the US who get very little to no direction from their parents. The other problem is how we approach high school, which is largely designed to push students into college. So one fix would be to make at least 50% of the purpose and direction of high school to educate and prepare students for employment.