Liberals love America just as much as Conservatives. There are very few people who actually hate America, but they’re not isolated to a specific political ideology.
Even if what you say is true, that Liberals drew first blood on hatred and division, the answer to that would not be to respond in kind. That will only escalate the hatred and division. I would suggest focusing on the areas where you have common ground with Liberals. I’m sure there’s much that can be agreed upon.
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say about respect for the ballot box.