Smyrna
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If a body mass index can be considered racial, then the virus is racist.
Isn’t it weird that eating an abundance of food, is now the PC label of poverty? 
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Nice meaningless anecdote.
zantax
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How is it meaningless? The path I took out of poverty is available to everyone.
Smyrna
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No…we are born to the two people that created us. The difference from that point on is what leads to the greatest probability of economic success…or failure. If you want to truly identify the largest contributing factor to economic failure, it’s the guidance given by the parents. The biggest problem is not an external one…it’s an internal one.
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It is available. I suspect it is “meaningless” because it doesn’t fit the rhetoric or talking pts.
Because a lot of people are not aware of that fact or think it’s a lie. They need to be reached somehow, through mentoring or whatever it takes. They literally just don’t know how to lift themselves out of their situation. Not just blacks, but millions of poor people everywhere.
I don’t disagree. Like I said, they just don’t know what to do to lift themselves out of a bad situation.
HOWEVER. How they got there in the first place is quite often an external one and goes back to pre CRA days.
zantax
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Finding a library isn’t that challenging. The information is also readily available online.
Smyrna
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I disagree. Life’s a bitch and so we have choices to make…are we going to build our house out of straw, sticks or bricks? This applies to all important decisions. Getting an education is a big one but since many in public schools have never learned self discipline…what did the schools choose to do? They built their house out of straw and removed the ability of a teacher being able to discipline the student. The reason they went that route is due to the parent siding with the child…and once again…we circle back around to…the parents. You’ll find this pattern repeating itself over and over. Now think back to your own self and what would have happened to you, if the school informed your parents about your bad behavior. I’d have said, please beat me but don’t call my parents. How about you? 
Yup, the old bootstraps BS. If you lived in poverty for a time you should know better than most how woefully uninformed people can be, as well as ill equipped to improve their station in life. You probably had a mentor to look up to for example. Someone in your life who helped you believe you could do it.
I already agreed with you that parenting is perhaps the biggest issue of all.
Then we’re teaching them the wrong things in school.
Some schools, sure. Mostly underperforming inner city schools. Suburban and rural schools are generally doing a decent job. If you take out the relatively few underperforming ■■■■ hole schools, the stats bear this out. Parenting is a much more critical issue.
zantax
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It was certainly taught to me when I went to public school. Have they stopped teaching people to stay in school and stay off drugs? Have they stopped teaching contraception?
Smyrna
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The social programs designed to be a helping hand, have actually helped create this new phenomenon. Maybe this should be reexamined?
Personally…I’d recommend something along a bonus for the family when a child on public assistance gets good grades. I’d like to motivate good behavior vs just financing and encouraging poor behavior.
zantax
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No, all I had were a few brain cells to rub together and a problem. The problem being, not making enough money. It didn’t take a rocket scientist Or a mentor to find out how millions of other people solved the same problem.
What I learned from my poverty stricken peers was that sitting on the couch in the evening drinking beer and complaining about being poor never lifted any of them out of poverty.
Yes to some extent, yes, and yes.
Smyrna
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We’re making headway my friend. Keep it up and you’ll get an invite to come sit on the Yeti.
…that’s where I keep my l’il bong where after the day is done, I go sit and…contemplate. 