I personally don’t think we disagree all that much. Again I speak as someone who taught in a high school in which the system forces everyone to do things they don’t want to do and force them to learn stuff that they have no interest in. This is especially true with the lower level students.
I completely agree that a person can change their feelings about school when they get older and mature. The biggest problem with higher education - and I’ll say this over and over again - is that much of what is done is on a practical level a complete waste of time that will add nothing to a persons productivity in the workforce.