I like what you and your family are doing for Mass, Guvnah. I tried the TV Mass and it seemed…too TV?..I don’t know it felt like something I was watching not participating. I am glad to hear it is working for many.
I am doing the USCCB readings and reflections, beginning (and ending) with personal prayer. I also go off to You Tube to find hymns relating to the Mass theme. For example, today was the the account of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead, so I chose, Roll Away the Stone, You are Mine, and Only a Shadow.
One of the reasons I think this works for me is because since the house is down to two of us, I am the only one who worships. I think watching Mass might be different with a family gathered.
As for giving credibility…my husband isn’t an atheist and he does not come up with silly suggestions like God should exempt places of worship from viruses. It is fine that people are atheists, but they should at least be intelligent enough to have a small modicum of knowledge of what people of faith actually believe about earthly matters.