Frankly there is very little music that I find “depressing”. The subject of death in music is a very old and established concept, just like it is in so many other arts.
People live, they die, music reflects that.
Don’t know what genre of music you listen to that spends lots of time on suicide and degrading women?
You can’t have a Country Western catalog of songs without tunes about relationships gone sour with the given that one will cry in their beer as a result.
Sex, drugs, and rock &roll. Can’t think off hand of any of my favorite Rock & Roll songs that are depressing? But yeah, lots of them do concern themselves with drugs, both legal and illicit.
I have an extremely eclectic taste in music. One would no doubt fail miserably in trying to attach party affiliation to me by looking at my music CD collection.
I imagine many others are just like me.