This. My mom has said this to me countless times.There are a lot of other pre-med students who are snobby and have a checklist mentality. The sad part is, they will get into medical school because they are so achievement-oriented and have done research and gotten a 3.95 GPA and a 528 on the MCAT, and all of these shadowing hours; medical schools will fawn over them veresus someone who is well-rounded but their GPA has dropped due to some health crises. The former go on to be gunners in medical school and get their MD/DO, and then they start treating patients without ever growing as a person.
Some kids are going or are potentially going to medical school because their parents want them to so they can live through them vicariously. I’m talking about tiger parents. The kids have no choice of their own, and so they grow much apathy for the medical professions.
A lot of good talent is being filtered out because of the checklist mentality and this coupled with hospitals/clinics trying to cut costs by not hiring doctors (and instead hiring NPs or PAs- not that they are bad, but doctors have studied long and hard for at least 8 years to be able to treat patients), and it’s a recipe for the downfall of the healthcare system in the U.S.
Personally, I knew my freshman year of college, I was a little cocky- I think you saw some of that here on the forums when I first joined. I didn’t understand there was so much more to getting into medical school and becoming a physician than getting good grades and a good MCAT score. You have to get your feet wet first- volunteer, shadow. Become an MA or a CNA. Etc. Become a “whole person.” I’m now having the opposite problem where my GPA is very questionable (2.76 as it stands right now before final grades are entered for this semester; C-s and Ds in my hard science courses) but I’ve learned so much and grown as a person amidst all the adversity I’ve gone through over the last four years- and I now know why I needed to experience it. Because I needed to learn to be humble, to be able to empathize with someone who is struggling and not judge them for being hateful- because they are suffering and sick people don’t alwatys act the best.
I may not be able to have the grades or the organization right now to be able to become an effective phsyician, but I’ve developed a heart and a soul. I may not be a gunner, if I get in, but that’s okay. I don’t want to be a gunner; I don’t want to be famous. I just want to see the joy on people’s faces when they are feeling better and be able to grow with them in the process. I want to help because there is a mental health pandemic going on right now, of suicide. I want to alleviate this, one person at a time.