You mean soldiers? Militants means something else. You are wrong. Most of the killing was by Hutu militias not civilians.

was Hutu militias killings members of another tribe as part of the civil war

Your weird need to separate the two for internet points is weird

And more importantly it doesn’t matter. You have no idea how the massacre affected his parents if at all.

The could have been 5 in 1994. See how silly your supposition is