When was the choice for an abortion or when to become pregnant (and when not to) made?
For me, it was when I was ten years old. I realized I could not kill a life, and I realized I could not give a baby up for adoption. That being the options, then every other choice I made throughout my teens and twenties was built on that choice. So don’t say others don’t have equal choices–that I had one, but others do not. I have a feeling most people, like me, made that choice long before they became pregnant. And, having already made that choice, other decisions were built onto it.
The choice to face is: Am I okay with killing/ending a life, or am I not? I was not. That means the choice can be, “Yeah, I’d be okay with killing/ending a life,” and based on that choice, other choices are made.